Christian dating a non christian
Adding that it was pointless for me to share God’s word with him anymore, he stressed that there was nothing I could say that would change his mind. I cried, pleading with him to reconsider his choice. That was when I knew what I had to do: I had to let this relationship go. Anyone does not love me will not obey my teaching” (John ). I also asked God for forgiveness, knowing too well that I had been disobedient.
Jesus said: “Anyone who loves me will obey my teaching. I had ignored His promptings and His Word throughout my relationship with Duncan, which lasted two years.
If you are going through a similar journey, I hope this will encourage you to place your hope and trust in God’s promise in your life.
“Those who know your name trust in you, for you, LORD, have never forsaken those who seek you” (Psalm ).
I have since learned to place my heart completely in God’s hands.
I trust that—if it is in His grand plan—He will place a godly man in my life.
It became clear to me that our yokes were vastly different. Being with him was akin to having one person pulling in one direction and the other one pushing in another.
We had different perspectives on the world and had opposing views on many issues.I cannot be certain that I will eventually be married in the future.However, there is one thing I know for sure—Christ is indeed enough for me.It also troubled me that Duncan was finding it especially difficult to forgive people who had wronged him. I would get so exhausted that I gave up trying to change his mind.
I would give in, not wanting to continue our fights.
I have always been amazed at my dad’s boldness in marrying a non-believer, and his patience and trust in God to make the flower bloom as he planted the seed of God’s love in my mother’s heart. Duncan and I were colleagues and we worked on many projects together.